How do you find strength when your heart is broken?

I just had a heart break.. it was my best buddy. I just find it so difficult to get over it... she was my best friend and now she broke my heart... I don%26#039;t even have anyone to talk to about it...





it%26#039;s killing me... i%26#039;m plagued with thoughts of suicide...





n it really feels horrible that i%26#039;m looking for advice online... i dont have any friends...
How do you find strength when your heart is broken?
aww. Poor you. Just don%26#039;t think about your heart break, and try getting on with life. Keep your head up high and try making new friends and there%26#039;s always a family member that can keep you company.





Good luck.!
How do you find strength when your heart is broken?
Hey I%26#039;m doing the same thing, read my questions, I don%26#039;t know, I guess somehow it makes you feel better knowing that you%26#039;re not the only misserable person in this world.
Reply:I usually listen to side 1 of Chicago%26#039;s greatest hits.
Reply:oh , your belief is crumbled...why you identify youself with your belief.?..that is why it hurts...You are not your belief...but if you are, then you being bleed...It will be gone soon , i promise. Then only then you can realize something...now you may realize a power of your own belief attempting to destroy you. actually it is not your former buddy destroying you but your own creation your personal belief %26quot;about %26quot;him showing you its side effect, negative part of it.
Reply:The world is beautiful. Just take a look around you--the way machines work, they way the human body functions, the universe. Wow. Find strength in knowing that the world is much bigger than yourself. That perfection exists.


Throughout life, you will get your heart broken. It is in our nature to let these things happen to us, but you shouldn%26#039;t let it defeat you. You still have places to go, people to meet, life to live. I know that it probably seems like the worse thing in the world, but please don%26#039;t give up. Life is an amazing gift.
Reply:Bro I had my heart broken too... but I%26#039;m still here! The best way to get strength in a hard time is to rely on God, just ask Him and He will help you get through this trust me on this one. And you will have better day ahead of you. Those thoughts are just thoughts you can change them, think about something else, don%26#039;t be alone right now call someone.


get out and do something, a movie, running, be active.


you can email me if you need someone to talk too.


Hey and God love you more than she could have, and nothing but good things for you.
Reply:I think i lost a friend!


i think its over between us....


and he was my best buddy my friend...someone i can connect with! Now i feel its all over....and it hurts so much...


i cant stop thinking about him....


i would like to know the answer to this Q, but i can%26#039;t even help myself to help you...!!


im sorry, i hope you%26#039;ll feel better soon....goodluck...%26lt;3%26lt;3%26lt;3
Reply:Read %26quot;Life of Pi%26quot;.
Reply:Life will find a way!


But you have to find the strength within yourself to get through it.


Take care of yourself by not skipping meals and getting enough sleep. Those are your prime concerns if you want to get through this. Other than that try not to burden yourself with guilt of things you should have done in this period in your life. Instead try to do the things you usually gain your strength from. Reading books, working out or watching movies ,whatever works for you.


Try to make time your friend in this situation and not your enemy!
Reply:Broken hearts hurt more than anything else. I actually find that your kind of lucky. I have lived my whole life loving people who never once loved me back. Your lucky that you, no matter how short of long of an amount of time, had someone who loved you and you loved them back. Just think of that feeling of love you had then and remember that one day you will get a love that is not only like that but about 10 times greater! There is hope for you and there is love in your future and I%26#039;m sure if you took a careful look around there are people out there who have love for you. Don%26#039;t kill yourself, You have a wonderful life waiting for you to live, all you have to do is find it. remember: better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all. I really hope this helps. lots of love :)
Reply:The best strength is a replacement.
Reply:learn from it and grow
Reply:Find someone to mend it.


If there%26#039;s anything I%26#039;ve learned, it%26#039;s that: %26quot;For every person that can break your heart there%26#039;s another that can mend it.%26quot;
Reply:%26quot;Sacred Psychology of Love: The Quest for Relationships that Unite Heart and Soul%26quot; and %26quot;Emotions,%26quot; Marilyn Barrick, Ph.D.





%26quot;Wanting to Live: Overcoming the Seduction of Suicide,%26quot; Neroli Duffy, M.D. and Marilyn Barrick, Ph.D.





http://www.befrienders.org





1-800-232-6459 http://www.family.org M-F business hours, ask for Counseling dept., tell your story.





1-800-525-LOVE http://www.klove.com 24/7 for licensed counseling.





%26quot;Testimony of Light,%26quot; Helen Greaves,


%26quot;Men in White Apparel,%26quot; Ann Ree Colton.





Self-murder is truly not a good option. Reach out to the numbers, sites, and books, let them be the voices of guidance, not some depressed, misleading notion.
Reply:i just focus on my studies/career, and give importance to my friends, and social life..
Reply:Hey dude i know exactly how you feel. if you want we can talk. im not a stalker or anything but we can talk. something similar has happened to me. i had the suicidal thoughts and i still do. im not entirely over it but im getting better. i really cant say right now cuz a really annoying person checks my account like everytime she comes on her account and bugs me about everything i say. but anyway email me. you and only you may email me.


unknownxemo@gmail.com


ok i would like to hear from you.